I have a story about my first season of really focusing on saltwater fishing (which was only 2022), a trip to Nootka, the pressure to produce in a rental boat with a hard rule to be back at dock by 7pm each night, resulting in 14 hour days, crack of dawn wake ups with little sleep, and end result a long standing friendship back to high school that is lets say on "hiatus" to this day.
Went back the next year with family instead, overheard some other buddies (strangers) across the road from us in the campsite having almost the exact same argument. Long days cramped in a small boat, hot sun, a few beers... damage can be done for sure.
But I like to think I'd never get too bent out of shape over an honest mistake. To me, as long as everyone is putting in their best effort we're good. As I said, I'm only 2 years in to this game, learning as fast as I can, but I'm sure I would make plenty of rookie mistakes on any of your guys boats still. Not from lack of effort but lack of experience. So when I have less experienced folks then me on the boat, I like to think I'm a pretty patient guy. As long as that attempt to net the fish (or drop the downrigger, or set the hook or whatever) was an honest best attempt, if we lose it we lose it. That's fishing. But if the attitude is all "yeah whatever man", not paying attention, we will probably have problems.
I am going to try sockeye out of China Creek this weekend. First time ever trying for soxs for me, and my deck hand will be my 16 year old nephew. The same one that was literally asleep last year in Nootka when a nice chinook hit (which we lost). He was one of many taking shifts with me last year. This weekend it is just me and him, me trying to learn the whole multi dummy flasher, stacked rods madness and relying on him to be as helpful as he can. Looking forward to seeing how it goes!
And if anyone else will be out there this weekend and wants to give some lessons, we probably could both use them.