I've had a buddy text me his buddy's fuel bill for the truck, they and one of their kids drove, to the West Coast to stay with me in my camper and go fishing for two days. He then lost it when I sent him a summary of my expenses with my calculations like I always do including my truck fuel bill. Friendship never recovered, but I can trace it back to a derby, where we didn’t discuss how the winnings were split, he fished one of two days, I bought two of three tickets and co-owned the boat, where my partner who didn’t fish said
@boat gets a share it’s always like that,” where my buddy felt blind sided. I was caught in the middle, I offered him the difference during a text message breakup but the damage was done.
My ex-boat partner pays half of all expenses while fishing for multi day trips, I pay 1/3 if we bring his buddy.
Another friend pays for his buddy's meals, lodging and gas when his buddy brings his boat to the West Coast.
It’s easy to drop 1-2k on prepping the boat, tackle and gear for a big west coast mission, on top of the cost of ownership which in the case of a big boat is likely in the tens of thousands per year now that boat depreciation is a thing (despite the denial boat sellers are going through) and we often own a much bigger truck than we would if we didn’t own a boat.
I’m a little less keen on doing big trips with others, it’s almost impossible to find people who will do 1/2 the work, much less split expenses.
Tip for boat buddies, if there is time to lean there is time to clean! Bring bait, brined. If you are a good cook bring sandwiches food. If you tie good knots pre-tie gear. Bring new chain swivels and hooks/leader line. A spare rod and reel that’s been serviced and has new line. Buy a set of charts and donate them to the boat.
A friend who owns a chandlery gave me halibut rod leashes he made himself, he can always fish with me with no expectations of compensation. My wife borrowed one and cut it, I considered divorce, not that I’m petty.
I don’t even want to track expenses just take things off my plate. Another Buddy “helped me” basically did my brake job on my trailer, he has free fishing for life.
@Soup Knot Sea
Group sounds pretty good.